What topics can you talk about with a girl. Interesting topics for a conversation with a girl

100 different topics for conversation:

1) A plumber came to you. But you don't have money. And there is no place to get it. The man offers to pay in kind. If you don't give it to him, the hut will float. Your actions?
2) You are with a guy. You really want him. You are ready to give him. And then he offers you sex for money right now. What will you do? For how much would you agree without hesitation?
3) You are walking with a guy. He's very nice, but as a man he's not your type. But the guy is very persistent. You should relax a little and he will fuck you brutally. Will you give him out of pity? What is "give out of pity" for you?
4) You agreed with the guy to meet. But he was 10 minutes late (you like him). Are you going to pout on him? How will you react?
5) A friend came to you with her boyfriend. They want you. But a friend is not your type. How do you resolve the situation?
6) You meet a guy for several meetings. He decided not to rush things. And you are already flowing. How will you speed up the process? Can you fuck a guy yourself?
7) You owe the man money. But you don't have them now. He openly harasses you. You can give it to him and he will forget. How will you do it?
8) You are visiting a guy. He put your cock in your hand. What will you do with it?
9) You really like one guy. You to him too. But he does not fit the first acquaintance. How will you attract him? What will surprise you.
10) The guy has a birthday. You want to surprise him with something sexy and out of the ordinary. What surprise will you prepare for him?
11) You are at the guy's house. Too late. Transport is not running. First date. No way to get home. Taxi is very expensive. You want it. Stay - there will be sex. How will you do?
12) The guy confessed that he was a virgin and asked to help him. Does not having sex turn you on? Do you like this kind of stuff?
13) The teacher of labor protection asks to suck for the top five. Are you going to try for an A?
14) The guy on the date honestly says he wants you. How do you like to hear such things?
15) The guy is tired at work. You want sex. But he's not doing well today. How will you help him?
16) I have noticed more than once that with the person you want, all conversations sooner or later come down to sex. You too?
17) You are going in a compartment. Opposite the guy. You two. You see him first and last time. Want crazy. The guy is being modest. How will you break the situation?
18) You are having sex with a guy. And then his / your mother / grandmother comes into the room. What will you say first?
19) You need to go to the toilet. Women's closed. You enter the men's room. And you see a sexy guy there. What will you do? How to justify?
20) Your girlfriend cheated on you - she told her boyfriend about your betrayal. How do you get revenge on your friend?
21) What would you do if you became a man for one day?
22) You went to rest with a guy on the sea. And there you met a guy "for one night". Will you take risks?
23) Sometimes you will want to cheat. How will you do it? What are you going to say to your boyfriend? (Infidelity strengthens a marriage)
24) You are going on a date in the summer. And your heel is broken. You almost arrived. What will you do?
25) Your mother/grandmother decided to take your boyfriend away from you. How will you solve this issue?
26) You came from the institute, and your mother vigorously fucks your boyfriend. What will you tell them? How will you treat your mother after that?
27) You give a blowjob to a guy. And his head is stuck in your tonsils. What will you do?
28) During sex, you could not restrain yourself and farted. Will you say "I'm sorry" or stay silent?
29) The guy farted during sex. Will you laugh or stay silent? Or do you fart loudly too?
30) Your boyfriend found a piece of condom packaging on your bed. He burned you. Do you confess?
31) Calls. The guy who calls you doesn't call you often. How important is this to you?
32) You and your girlfriend liked the same guy. Will you fight for him?
33) You and your girlfriend were invited to visit by a cool guy. You drink and then you realize that soon there will be a group sex. How do you feel about it. What will you do? Will you tell your friend about this?
34) Your boyfriend wants your girlfriend. Just sex. He told you about it. How will you help him?
35) The man has a very big dick. How will you deal with it?
36) Will you date two guys at the same time if you like both of them?
37) Your boss is harassing you. You understand that this is not serious, for 1-2 times. What will you do?
38) Your loved one wants to change something in you. Are you ready to change for him? How deep?
39) Your boyfriend decided to realize his old erotic fantasy - (for example) sex in a taxi. You will know that this is very important to him. Will you play along if it's not very romantic for you?
40) Pleasure. What do you enjoy in life?
41) Dancing. What do you feel when you dance with a new partner? How much do you feel sexual energy partner?
42) You understand that you are one of the guys. But there is something about him that draws you in. You want to have sex with him. Is this normal for you?
43) The guy wants to communicate with you without obligations, and you want responsibility to each other. What will you do?
44) You and your boyfriend are cool together. You forget about everything when you are together. But you understand that this is not love. Will you be with this person? What for? How long?
45) You really want to fall in love with a guy, because you yourself fell head over heels in love with him. What will you do for this?
46) What is love for you? (Endless theme)
47) You got a guy with a very strong temperament in sex. More than you. Will you adapt or try to change it?
48) You ran out of condoms after 4-5 times. But I want one more time. Going to the pharmacy breaks. Do you trust the guy?
49) You have your period. You are in rough terrain. There are no funds - I forgot. What will you do?
50) My friend cured a cold with sex. Have you ever been treated like this? Have you tried a cold?
51) The guy invited you to visit to watch a movie. Sit down, and he turns on porn. Will you watch?
52) You understand that the next meeting with a guy will have sex. Are you coming to the next date?
53) What do you like more: sudden sex or a planned event?
54) The guy asks you for money for sex. How much will you give?
55) How do guys do crazy things make you feel?..
56) A very pleasant grandfather pesters you. But for some reason he does not excite you. How will you explain it to him?
57) Would you be able to exchange any personal secret with a man? What are secrets for you?
58) Girlfriend asks for help to lose her virginity. How will you help? How?
59) Many men and women go to nightclubs to find a partner for the night. Do you like this kind of entertainment?
60) Do you enjoy being seduced? What do you get from seduction?
61) You can't have sex for a while. How will you communicate during this time with a guy?
62) You go on a date, but at the same time you meet an even cooler guy. What do you say to the first guy?
63) The guy on the first date offers a blowjob in exchange for cunnilingus. Will you agree?
64) What helps you relax well (drink, music, frank conversation...)
65) You understand that fate is a chain of accidents and results of your actions. How will you build your destiny?
66) One must learn and improve in everything. How do you plan to improve in sex?
67) You wanted to play with a guy and realized that you fell in love. Do you admit to him that you played?
68) You walk around the city and see a 90% sale in a sex shop. What will you buy yourself?
69) All people have dreams. And they change with age. What is your dream now? What are you dreaming about when you close your eyes?
70) you got in unfamiliar city to an unfamiliar country. You don't know the language. What will you do?
71) A stranger called you. You have talked. And he invited you to his place. How brave are you girl? What will you do?
72) You are sitting at home. You're fucking bored. Don't you know what to do? Where are you going in the evening? How do you engage yourself?
73) Every day you have less and less free time, and the need for men is more and more. How do you imagine it?
74) You and your friends played the same sex game. In the dark. You've been caught. And you feel like you're already being fucked. You feel good. Are you trying to find out who it is?
75) You wake up in the morning and realize that this is the happiest day of your life. Tell about him.
76) All people in life have some kind of achievement. Tell us about your most important achievement.
77) You have the opportunity to become anything on this planet for one day. What would you like to become? A blade of grass? leaflet? A drop of dew? Butterfly?
78) Imagine that only you and I are left in this world. What will you do to me?
79) Imagine that I can fulfill your 3 deepest, craziest desires. What will it be?
80) Close your eyes and imagine for a moment that you can do whatever you want. What would you like to do right now?
81) What color do you associate yourself with. Each person has their own color. What color are you?
82) Imagine that everything you dreamed about has already happened. What's next?
83) The guy you dated for a while is bisexual (semi*censored*ac). How will you react to this?
84) You were given 2 tickets to a male striptease. Who will you invite? What will you do there?
85) You were chosen Miss Universe 2006. What will you do?
86) If you could live your life again, knowing what was in this one, what would you change?
87) Each person is unique in his own way. In what way are you unique?
88) You were given a magic pill that will cure you of any of your shortcomings, make you a better person. What would you most like to improve?
89) All the men on this planet have stopped making acquaintances, dating, showing any signs of perseverance. What will you do?
90) You were given a time machine. What time would you like to move?
91) Romance. How important is she in your life?
92) Imagine that you could play any game from your childhood. What childhood game do you most want to play right now? (You can play catch on the street)
93) You can live your whole life at the same age. What age will you choose?
94) Constancy in men. You can choose to be steady and smart, or sassy and glamorous. Who will you choose?
95) Another girl molests your boyfriend in your presence. What will you do?
96) Close your eyes and describe your inner state in a few sentences...
97) People experience different moods. What will you do when your boyfriend has a different mood?
98) What would you spend the last $1,000 of your life on?
99) Imagine being able to *censor* as much as you want? How many hours in a row could you have sex?
100) If phones, the Internet, SMS disappeared from our lives, and only pen and paper remained, what would you write in a love letter?

Often there are situations when a man does not know what to talk about with a girl amid excitement, worries or embarrassment. Experts say that communication skills and the ability to communicate easily with the opposite sex comes with experience and practice. In the meantime, during this stage, you can start with a theory that will help a man be ready for different circumstances.

Psychologists believe that the first opinion about a person significantly affects further communication, so it is most difficult to start a conversation correctly. For inexperienced men, superficial topics were left, as well as what questions can be asked in order to win over a woman and get to know her better. Thanks to communication, you can show the girl your the good side character, as well as important information from her life.

Communication when meeting or how to speak?

Some men tend to pre-think topics for conversations and questions that will be asked during the conversation. Daredevils and self-confident seducers, on the contrary, prefer to improvise, developing a conversation in a free mode without a plan and instructions. Psychologists, for all types of men, have prepared topics for talking with a girl when meeting, since the prospect of a relationship depends on the first impression.

In general, communication during acquaintance can consist of three types of phrases - contextual or directive, as well as template phrases. In the first case, the situation and circumstances of acquaintance decide a lot; phrases can vary within the woman's appearance, her outfit and hairstyle, mood, behavior or environment. Thanks to such communication, the girl will understand that she is interested in a man. Here are some examples of contextual phrases:

• Tell me, is this street (street name) really?
• Do you know where you can buy ice cream nearby, maybe we can enjoy a treat together?
• It's raining outside, may I offer you my umbrella?
• You have such a posture and grace, surely you are dancing?
• It's amazing how you look like famous actress(name of an attractive outwardly actress)!

If we consider directive phrases, they are needed to demonstrate the desire for acquaintance. Just here you don’t have to think about how to interest a girl. Despite the fact that such phrases are less productive, but this approach emphasizes the confidence and purposefulness of a man. Directive phrases can be of the following plan:

• Will you have free time tonight?
• How do you feel about live communication and a walk in the park?
• Allow me to get to know you.
• Your beauty does not let me pass by, what is your name?

Template phrases can also tell you what to talk about with a girl. This is perhaps the most controversial option for dating, as it can either ruin everything or help a man start a conversation. Examples of template phrases:

• Does your mother need a son-in-law?
• I am amazed by your beauty, let me know your name.
• Let's meet?
• I think we've met somewhere before.
• Your beauty struck me so much that I just don't know how to talk to you.

Expert opinion

Elena Druzhnikova

Sexologist. Expert on family relations. Family psychologist.

Template phrases must necessarily correspond to the character and temperament of a man, otherwise the girl will immediately recognize the “preparedness” and stereotyped conversation of a man, perceiving him as an insincere person.

Long conversations

Any man can talk to a girl, but not everyone knows how to arrange a woman for conversation and open communication with the right questions. There are questions that lead the dialogue to a dead end, as a rule, they imply monosyllabic answers. If a man seeks to talk to his opponent in order to find out more about her, it is advisable to make a list of questions in advance that can and cannot be asked.

What questions can be asked?

Good questions should begin with the words “why, what for, what, how and which”. Thanks to this wording of the questions, the girl will immediately understand that the man is interested in her, settling down for further communication with him.

Psychologists advise transforming any closed questions into open ones, for example:

1. The question "Do you like strawberries?" you can ask differently - "What berries and fruits do you prefer especially?".
2. The question "Are you an owl or a lark?" can be rephrased - “what time do you usually wake up, how many hours are you used to sleeping, what time do you go to bed?”.

Psychologists emphasize the basic rules about what to communicate with a girl with the help of questions:

• girls always appreciate creative and non-standard questions, so a man needs to dream up so that the questions are not boring and banal;
• questions must be positive, and any unexpected turn conversation is best corrected by changing the subject;
• personal questions should be asked in a dosed way and in a timely manner as you get closer to the girl.

If a man does not know how to flirt with a girl, you can simply ask what flowers she likes, which will be a signal for further action and courtship. You can demonstrate interest in her by asking about her friends, abilities and talents, hobbies and professional activity, goals in life and dreams. Questions about movies, favorite actors, music will help you decide on further options for successful dates.

Important! If a girl is constrained and not disposed to communicate, psychologists recommend using humor in questions. Not knowing what to talk about in a certain situation, you can just joke. For example, asking "I bet I'm a better kisser?" or “What do you think, if you take a sleeping pill, and then a can of energy drinks, who will win in the end.”

What questions should not be asked?

In fact, it is quite difficult for many men to find a topic for conversation and questions, as a result of which tricky and negative questions often arise that lead the dialogue to a dead end. For example:

• questions about the girl's weight;
• about the number of guys in the past;
• about any mistakes she made;
• about the level of IQ;
• about appearance in a critical format (hair color, choice of cosmetics, clothing, etc.).

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Also, do not use template options for questions that do not fit the type and character of a man. It is worth remembering that closed questions ending with a one-word answer always bring the dialogue to an end. Inadmissible questions include vulgar options that may be appropriate only between close acquaintances.

Networking

Often, men turn to specialists on forums and communities with the problem of “I don’t know what to talk about with a girl on social networks.” It would seem that there is nothing easier than communicating remotely using the Internet, where every word can be thought out in advance. First of all, experts advise to determine the goals of communication, which will predetermine the direction of communication.

Advice! Communication on the Internet should be based on a goal that is best achieved along the shortest path. Wasting time and stretching the dialogue for months and years is inappropriate, this will lead to a lack of interest on the part of the girl.

During correspondence it is forbidden:

• complain about life, people, cry about difficulties and problems;
• gossip about other people;
• to discuss the shortcomings of people, especially their ex-girlfriends;
• be offended by the interlocutor with or without it.

It is better to talk about yourself those moments and events that characterize a man from the best side. Any opinion must be supported by facts, without value judgments. good indicator best sides and qualities will be photographs with family, friends, in different circumstances, demonstrating the hobbies and interests of a man. From the photo of the girl you can find a topic for conversation. Media files, movies, music, pictures can add creativity to the correspondence to attract attention.

Topics for conversation with girls

Few men know for sure what girls like to talk about, which is why attempts to start a dialogue often fail. A successful and productive conversation with a girl is possible, the topics of which will be related to her hobbies, hobbies, preferences and priorities in life, dreams and plans for life. It is important that the conversation be as relaxed and unobtrusive as possible, natural, so that it does not look like a man is just fawning.

Romance

If a man builds a dialogue with an unfamiliar girl in order to invite her on a date, you can put her in a romantic mood with the help of a conversation. You can tell how a man would like to meet the dawn in the morning or order in the evening in an intimate setting. Or you can invite a girl to the beach in order to take beautiful romantic photos at sunset or sunrise.

Sport

You can find common interests with an unfamiliar girl by talking about proper nutrition, sport, lifestyle. Almost all girls are concerned about their figure, watching the tone and weight. You can ask her attitude to sports, offer a good gym, website or blog about proper nutrition or something like that. In the future, you can even organize a joint visit to the gym or pool.

Art

You can keep a lively conversation on the topic of art and culture, finding out the girl's preferences in music, cinema, hobbies different types creativity. Most often, such topics are appropriate in a conversation with a girl, when everything has already been talked about. In addition, in this way you can find common ground, for example, your favorite actor or movie genre, music and common favorite songs.

Her family and relatives

How to talk to a girl when communication has already become quite close and close? In this case, a man can ask about parents and family relationships. According to the description of the pope, one can understand what ideal of a man is built in the girl's subconscious. By showing interest in the girl's family, the man thereby makes it clear that he has serious intentions for her.

Animals

Another one alive and always actual topic, about which you can communicate tete-a-tete or through the network - these are animals. Almost all girls love animals, so you can show her your attitude towards them, emphasizing the points of contact. If she has pets, you can ask for a photo, and then give the animal pleasant compliments. Praise for caring for our smaller brothers will be the perfect compliment for the girl herself.

Humor

Laughter prolongs life, and psychologists say that it is his sense of humor that conquers many girls in men. You can just tell anyone funny case from life, so that she was interested, or a funny anecdote. If interesting topics have been exhausted, it's time to have fun from the heart with jokes and sharp humor. If a man managed to cheer up a girl, then he will be able to conquer her.

compliments

If a man does not know what to do in order to win over a girl, you can use a special tool - compliments. But at the same time, it is important not to overdo it, otherwise it will look insincere in the form of fawning. You can simply praise her lipstick, manicure or hairstyle when you meet, because she spent time creating an image. The best subjects for compliments are the girl's smile and eyes.

Communication rules

First of all, a man needs to put a list of topics, as well as what questions to ask a girl to talk to her. Further, during the conversation, you need to adhere to several rules from psychologists, namely:

• Lie exception. With constant and close communication, any untruth sooner or later will emerge.
• The exclusion of obscene speech, abuse always spoils the impression of a man and can even be perceived as an insult to a girl.
• Correct posture and gestures. During conversations, you should not cross your arms over your chest, excessive gestures can look strange, and constant scratching of the chin, head, eyes and earlobes emphasizes self-doubt.
• Inadmissibility of complaints. Girls love and respect strong and persistent men, so you should not complain about difficulties, work, and even more so about ex-girlfriends.
• Conducting a dialogue. In the course of communication, it is important to maintain parity by speaking out and listening to the opponent.
• Bright and emotional conversation. Stories about any events should be supported by appropriate emotions and mood so that the dialogue is always lively and not boring.
• Positive. You should not discuss any life problems with your interlocutor, shifting the load on her shoulders. Also, do not gossip about other people, discuss ex-girlfriends, etc.
• Self confidence. In the dialogue of a man there should not be the phrases “I need to think”, “maybe” or “I don’t know”. In addition, during communication, you need to monitor your posture, the straightened state of the shoulders, calmness, confidence in gait, etc.

To communicate in accordance with these rules, you can regularly train in front of a mirror. Particular attention is paid to breathing, which can turn a confident conversation into a confused and crumpled monologue. In order for speech to be clean and literate, you need to read books, train with the help of tongue twisters and different exercises from speech therapists.

What shouldn't be talked about?

Interesting topics have already been discussed earlier, now it is worth finding out topics for conversations with a girl that are forbidden and contraindicated by specialists. First of all, these include topics that a priori cannot be interesting and understandable for the fair sex, for example, topics about cars and technology, horror or action films, computers or weapons.

Topics that are extremely contraindicated include politics, religion and nationalism, since disputes and clashes of views often arise on this basis. The topic of ex-girls in a man's life, about their advantages and disadvantages, is considered taboo. A man is not supposed to gossip, whine and cry into the shoulder of a girl, as well as succumb to emotionality, expressing his lack of concentration.

Conclusion

Many inexperienced and insecure men attend various trainings and psychological consultations in order to learn how to flirt with a girl and get to know the opposite sex. In fact, everything is quite simple, it is only important to decide on the purpose of acquaintance and communication, to start communication by finding common topics for conversation, as well as to show their best qualities and traits through well-formed dialogue. Communication should be lively, relaxed and sincere.

Starting a conversation with a girl and charming her at the same time is a whole science. In this article we will talk about the techniques that every man should own.

Most likely, if you are interested in this topic, you are not very successful at personal front. Communication with the weaker sex is not easy, and even more so, you have no idea what topics for a conversation with a girl can become the key to women's hearts.

List of interesting topics to talk to a girl

Your main task during a date is to create an atmosphere of fun and pleasant pastime. She needs to feel how comfortable it is to be around you.

Provoke her to positive emotions, cheer up, make her smile.

What can you talk about to put her in a good mood, you ask?

Here are some examples of conversation topics that work well with a woman:

• travels;
• vacation;
• hobbies and hobbies.

You can start a conversation by simply asking what she likes to do in her free time (hobbies, music, sports, films, etc.), asking about pleasant impressions and plans.

Advice.focus all topics of conversation around her. Be curious and be a good listener. Show that you are really interested in her inner world and her as a person in general.

ask more questions, requiring detailed answers, and not a simple “yes” or “no”. Let her turn on her imagination, relive positive emotions.

What women like to talk about:

1. Fresh gossip, talk about other people's relationships.
   Women love to talk about relationships. You can switch to it after discussing studies, work or politics. For example, a colleague who is in love with the boss, the minister of culture who is cheating on his wife, etc.
2. Fashion or shopping.
   Ask her questions about clothes, why she chose this particular color, in which store she likes to dress. Women spend a lot of time on their appearance, it is important for them how they look.
3. Mood.
   Tell her that she looks upset or, conversely, very cheerful. Find out the reasons.
4. Film distribution news.
   From a conversation about films, you can get very a large number of interesting topics. You choose. Ask her opinion about this or that hero, what she would do in his place, about the finale of the film, the dynamics of its development, etc.
5. Books.
   First, specify what she reads more often: books or magazines. Magazines can suggest the topic of celebrities, relationships between a man and a woman. Who deceived whom, who slept with whom, who marries whom. The girls love it.
6. Music.
   This is also a very exciting topic. But be careful not to ask a banal question: What kind of music do you listen to? , it's too boring. Better try to guess, something like: A girl like you should love rock.
7. Hobbies, plans, travel.
   Try not only to listen to her, but also to open up yourself. When we talk about what we like, we share positive energy that attracts the interlocutor. If you feel that something has hooked her, go through this topic far and wide, study it thoroughly. Obviously, this will make you ultra attractive in her eyes. It is better to start this conversation towards the end of the date in order to say goodbye on a great note and leave a slight hint of a promising continuation of the relationship after your departure.

As you guessed, there are those topics of conversation that are best avoided in a conversation with a girl.

Do not talk about the bad, about too serious (about suffering, about world problems, bad ecology), nothing global. It's as stupid as shooting yourself in the foot...

Let's draw a line, under the ban remain:

• politics;
• religion;
• death;
• too serious or too sad stories.

Discussion is, first of all, the exchange of information

Here are 4 tips that will help you in trying to turn a girl's head on a date:

1. The best stories about yourself. Tell her something that will allow her to see you as an extremely reliable person who can be relied upon to protect her and take care of her. Mention, for example, your sister or girlfriend: This weekend I went to the cinema with my younger sister or Yesterday we celebrated my girlfriend's birthday. This will create the illusion of an active lifestyle, and most importantly, it will show that you have many acquaintances of the opposite sex, and they appreciate you very much. So, there is something in you, and there is reason to take a closer look.
2. Stories about travel and joint leisure with friends. It's better not to stoop to primitive style stories. Last summer I went to Italy. Answer with a question: Have you been to Milan? Feel free to mention events that highlight your hobby, of course, if it's worth it.
3. Showcasing the rich inner world and social significance. During the first dates, it is important for you to show who you are. interesting person. For example, if a girl says that she went to such and such an exhibition, throw it casually that your friend has also been there. If she says she does classical dances, mention your friend again with the same fascination.
4. Avoiding boring conversations. Does the conversation reach a dead end or become secularly boring? There is a method of technical disagreement. Everything is simple. If you start to openly contradict her, in 99% of cases she will start arguing, defending her point of view. If you always and in everything agree with her, the conversation will quickly lose its original ardor and come to naught.

Attention.Do not overdo it, the dispute can quickly turn into a quarrel, and this meeting is needed only to just have a good time together.

Here is a list of topics where you can easily contradict a girl without conflicting with her:

• who is right, boy or girl;
• or a friend;
• a movie character she likes but you don't like.

If she gets too carried away and talks more than you, that's even good. She participates in the conversation. And yes, you got her.

So, you have all the cards in your hands in seducing girls. Down with fears, be yourself, and then everything will definitely work out.

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Everyone has been in a situation where you have just met a person and are trying to find common topics for conversation. This confuses many, and that awkward silence ensues.

website learned what Internet users are talking about in order to quickly make friends with new acquaintances.

Ask a person a question from any field, for which he needs to find 3 different options answers. For example, ask the interlocutor to name 3 of his favorite foods, movies, or funniest childhood memories. This little exercise will not only help your friend feel more relaxed, but will also help you get to know them better. It may sound a little childish, but it really works.

Can be discussed how your day usually goes, what you like and dislike about your job(People are very fond of complaining about their work, but here it is important not to overdo it with the negative). It is also always interesting to know why you chose this particular profession (childhood dreams, adult example, etc.).

If you have one profession, then consider this a great success, because it will be easy for you to find common topics.

It is difficult to find a person who does not like pets, especially cats and dogs. Some people will start talk passionately about your pets(maybe even show pictures) , others - to talk about how they dream of having a four-legged friend. In an emergency case of a complete loss of communication skills, take out your smartphone and turn on YouTube. Sincere laughter at the habits of another cute cat will immediately break the ice between you and your interlocutor.

Even if it turns out that your interlocutor collects edged weapons, and you collect rare dolls, you will surely It will be interesting to discuss each other's passions. It is also a great opportunity to learn about different hobbies and maybe find a new activity that you enjoy.

People who have not seen a single episode of the Game of Thrones series will soon be counted on the fingers. Therefore, if your interlocutor (and you, of course) watched a cult series, then topics for conversation will appear by themselves. Do not forget about famous films. After all movie - best source collective memories. You can always talk about how much you worried about Mufasa from The Lion King or Jack and Rose from Titanic.

If the conversation is not going well, you can always refer to the childhood memories of the interlocutor. Ask what he was fond of, what he dreamed about, what subjects he liked or disliked most at school. The main thing is not to show excessive perseverance and bypass relations with parents. Such questions may be considered too personal.

Of course, there are no universal topics for conversation when communicating with a new acquaintance. But you will always be helped. good manners, sense of humor and ability to listen to the interlocutor.

What do you prefer to talk about at the first meeting? Share in the comments!

When a girl is 5 years old, you tell her a story and send her to bed.
At age 10, she tells stories to herself as she goes to bed.
At the age of 15, she tells her mother stories about the fact that she did not go to bed with anyone.
At 20, anyone is ready to tell her a story to drag her into bed.
At 25, people tell stories about what she can do in bed.
At 30, she tells stories in bed that she is still 20.
At 35, you tell her stories that you don't get anyone to bed anymore.
At 40, she tells you stories to get you into bed.
At 45, you tell her stories so you don't go to bed.

What to talk about with a girl while dating? How to talk during a pickup truck - loudly or quietly, with a cheerful face or with a serious one? .. You must use all of the above options. If you tell a girl a joke, then tell it lively, loudly. If you are loading, then speak a little quieter to reduce the contact area, but clearly so that she does not have to ask you again. A soft, inspired voice, a slightly defocused look, adjustment (posture and breathing), an interested look, mirroring of gestures ... There are also so-called trance intonations. In general, voice work is the most important part of communication, since we usually communicate with it. Best of all, you will be given a “voice” at an NLP training, and at home, a voice recorder will become your trainer.

Let's move on to the topics of conversation ... You need to talk with a girl about life, about people and attitude towards them, about what is valuable to her, what she likes in men, about love, finally. The greatest confidence in the interlocutor is caused by stories about parents. Here you can connect your fantasy and tell how your dad jumped with a parachute, and he often didn’t open it, or how your mom heroically saved a brood of kittens from a burning house. Start talking about the girl's interests, about her future profession, tell me a story from your life, a little philosophy, a story about some musician that might seem interesting to her. You ask a question - almost any, but while she is thinking, you are preparing the next one, you are considering further conversation. The more questions are ready, the easier it is to think through and direct the conversation in the right direction. Remember Stirlitz - he spoke and thought about completely different things at the same time! Of course, this won’t work right away, but it’s worth training.

The main thing - in a conversation with a girl, do not get hung up on one topic! After a pause in the conversation, when it begins to seem that everything has already been said about the previous topic, just change the subject. At least pay attention to the weather - but do not overdo it with platitudes! After talking yourself, leave time for her to speak out so that you don’t get the impression that you adore monologues. She is the same person, only with a slightly different way of thinking - try to feel it, understand its value. And the questions “what to talk about with a girl” simply will not arise, since the main reason for their occurrence is that a guy often does not see a personality behind a girl.

Imagine a situation when you are talking with your friends - can you constantly and continuously talk any nonsense with them? Easily! So, the whole problem when communicating with girls depends only on your internal state. Try to communicate more with all the women around you, and sooner or later communication with them will be no different from the other. I recommend listening to the radio, as the DJ constantly has to say different nonsense, and he must say it all the time and never repeat himself, which is very difficult!

Voice your internal monologue! When you sit next to a girl in a bar, bus, office, talking with her about the weather, work or last year's vacation, thoughts are spinning in your head about what a charming smile your companion has, how her hair sparkles in the sun, how wonderfully she smells perfume. Try to let out this conversation that you have with yourself. Voice your thoughts, tell the girl: "I could not help but pay attention to your eyes - they sparkle like diamonds." Tell the girl in your office, "You know, work can sometimes be depressing, but you're so charming, I just need to see you to cheer me up." Bus option: “I was just thinking that if it wasn’t for your smiling face that I see every morning, I would probably quit my job and stay at home.”

Think of TV celebrities you've seen on talk shows. They say unexpected, crazy, even outrageous things, intriguing the audience or making them laugh. Think of your friends who use great success at the girls. You have probably noticed that these men are able to talk to a girl without embarrassment on any topic of interest to women, and the weaker sex likes this. These people break the shackles of traditional secular communication, they are liberated, spontaneous, even prone to clowning. They are not afraid to show the girl birthmark in the shape of a heart on their own thigh, they fearlessly imitate a wild duck luring a drake towards him, and when the party gets boring, they start a discussion about what is the best kissing technique. In other words, these men are damn entertaining because they are not afraid to rip off their formal jacket and say or do whatever they want.

Never ask a girl the typical stranger questions “Where do you go to school?”, “Where are you from?”, even “What is your name?” Old friends don't ask that. Why remind her once again that you're a stranger? It is better to ask her such questions: “Where would you go on vacation, what country is your dream?” or "Tell me the story of that ring of yours." More better questions funny stories about yourself. Talk about yourself as if the other person has known you for a long time. Don't tell a girl: “I have a five-year-old niece, when she came yesterday, she arranged something ...” Better to say like this: “My niece, do you know what she arranged yesterday? She took the whipped cream from my fridge…” Avoid introducing the girl to the facts of your life, talk about events and emotions.

Incorrect: “I work for the Horseradish Corporation as a paperclip unfolding manager. They promised to give me a car recently… Can you imagine?…” It’s better to say to a girl: “You know, yesterday was a hard day, and when I got free, I went out to the roof of our office building and looked at the city, at the lit windows and hurrying cars, and you know what was I thinking?… About all these people who dream about something…” Less facts, more emotions. Close people communicate not at the level of facts, but at the level of emotions. Naturally, curiosity will make the girl ask questions. Reward her curiosity with new interesting messages.

- How old is your niece?

- Lenke something? 5 years. You know, the most interesting thing is that she only obeys her grandmother, and they named her after her. You won’t believe it, Baba Lena once danced in ballet ... so when Lenka gets naughty, she starts to perform such things ... we make fun of her that we will give her to a striptease ...

It is necessary to talk with a girl in an interesting way and in the most boring (proposed) topics. Your answers should awaken her imagination and kindle curiosity. In order not to give the impression of hiding something (for example, not to tell that the car broke down a long time ago and there is no money for a vacation), give her more information than she needs, more than she can absorb. Close people share anything when communicating, not dividing information into important and funny.

Well, if you still suffered a failure in the form of a complete stupor and awkward silence, then there is a way out. At such a moment, it is good to observe her eyes, and then say: “You know, it's always interesting to know what people think during such pauses. It seems to me that this could be very good. My friend Vanya recently also met a girl on the street, and they were sitting like we are now. By the way, now they are very happy and they feel good together. And when there was such a pause, he took her hand like this (you take her hand) and said: “I was just thinking about how good it could be for you and me. You are so beautiful, gentle and affectionate. Imagine how good it would be if you thought the same thing now and even after a long time you remembered this day (morning, evening) as the happiest in your life, when you so simply believed your heart, and now we are happy together ".

[Maintain long and interesting conversation For many, this is a daunting task. Even understanding the principles of building a successful dialogue, a man is painfully silent already in the second minute of communication. At the practical pickup trainings of the Dating Academy, you will real conditions learn not only to talk to a girl, but also to maintain many hours of interesting conversation with any person. Moreover, the instructor will correct and train you "in hot mode", right in the process of meeting or dating, unnoticed by the girl.]

If you have to talk to a girl who is silent from the very beginning of the acquaintance, you can amuse her with a monologue ... Knock-knock! Are we silent? Well, if you don’t want it, whatever you want ... Will we get to know each other? You're busy? Are you ignoring? Broke down? Don't want to chat? Want something more? Tired of guys? Imposing? Passed out from happiness? Do not be silent, oh beautiful stranger, I cannot bear this murderous silence! Do you love poetry? Let me tell you something! I can use Shakespeare's sonnets, amorous poems, Onegin's letter to Tatyana, excerpts from the orders of the President of the Russian Federation, from the Constitution, I can use the Kalashnikov assault rifle or hypnotic phrases, after reading which you will simply fall in love with me ... Maybe you like philosophical sayings? .. We can for life in kind! And we can have highly intellectual disputes about the meaning of life and spiritual values ​​... What do you like more? .. Maybe we'll play a game? I offer a one-question test for knowledge of the Russian language. If you give the correct answer, then I fall off the side and never pester you again! If you can not answer correctly, then you will communicate with me. And if you keep quiet, then I'll think of something else! Do you agree?.. I'll make you an offer you can't refuse! I will apply all my strength of character, seduction, individuality, uniqueness of me as a person, so that you can at least answer something! Well, at least send me away, or what? At least some kind of reaction… Oh! There is! Invented! Let's play one more game! Come up with the three most sophisticated ways to send young man that pesters you. Weak?! Yes, it looks weak ... And you refuse to send me, and you also refuse to answer ... Hmm, a very unusual case! What to do with you?.. What about you? Let's be quiet, okay? Please don't distract me anymore! Don't even try, I won't answer! Oh, how good it is to be silent with you! Just a soul to heaven! There are so few people in the world with whom even if you are silent, you still feel comfortable! I even begin to understand the meaning of life! Here's a little more - and I understand! And nirvana will overtake me! What a pleasure to talk to a girl like you. And all because of you! Thank you! Big and huge! I started talking about something... We were going to be silent... That's it, we need to concentrate... And be quiet... Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... My receptors open to the Great Cosmos... Ommmmmmmmmmmmmm... How does it feel? I'm so glad I met you! You know how to be silent so beautifully and eloquently ... Just rare girl! It is necessary to protect this! .. That's it, let's keep silent! .. I congratulate you from the bottom of my heart! Ask with what? I will answer: You are the most impregnable girl I have ever met. You know, I'm already so used to you. To the fact that I can tell you whatever you want - still do not answer ... Beauty! I know what you're thinking… You're thinking, like, she didn't say a word, but he chatted for half an hour. He will probably tell a whole novel now ... And I'm not going to! It wasn't even in my mind! I think that just a presentation with elements of an essay will be enough. Knock Knock! There-there-there! Bang bang bang! Fuck tibidoh! Can't hear... What a talkative girl...