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N.V. Gogol - the story "Taras Bulba". In this story, N.V. Gogol writes about the all-consuming power of feelings over a person. His hero Andriy betrays his homeland, the bonds of comradeship, his father, his people, falling in love with a beautiful Polish woman. Thus, according to the writer, the hero ruined himself. In the finale, he is killed by his own father, who did not forgive him for his betrayal.

N.S. Leskov - the story "Lady Macbeth of the Mtsensk district".

The writer explores the nature of love-passion, which completely took possession of the human soul. The bearer of this passion becomes N. Leskov's woman, the merchant's wife Katerina Izmailova. And this passion leads her to crimes, death. For the sake of her lover, she secretly destroys her husband, her child. In the finale, she ends up in hard labor, where her lover betrays her. Love-passion is, according to the writer, a destructive element that is not controlled by the mind.

What is the role of childhood in human life? What does the image of a native home contain in our soul?

L.N. Tolstoy - the story "Childhood". In this work, the writer explores the process of character formation. In the mind of the hero Nikolenka Irtenyev, the whole richest spectrum of life impressions was reflected: childhood, family, class. Gradually, the hero begins to discover the world around him, people and explore his own soul. So, Nikolenka feels his moral separation from friends and acquaintances. The father's authority is collapsing: the hero begins to realize that his mother is deprived of his attention. “The tragedy of the ruined life of the faithful master's slave Natalya Savishna is revealed. The first competition of minds and characters takes place: Nikolenka and Volodya's older brother, Nikolenka and Seryozha Ivnin. Unconscious cruelty is manifested ... - pushing around Ilenka Trap. Main result childhood - all things and relationships are in motion, you are not alone in the world"

I.A. Goncharov - the novel "Oblomov". In this novel, the author deeply explores the nature of his hero, the origins of his character, in the pictures of Oblomov's childhood. The author gives us these pictures in Oblomov's Dream. We see here a description of nature. Her serenity, calmness is akin to fairy tale. This place has no dense forests”, the sea, suggestive of sadness, mountains and abysses. But the sky there is “like a parental reliable roof”, the sun “shines brightly and hotly around noon and then moves away ... as if reluctantly ...”. And all the nature there represents "a series of ... cheerful, smiling landscapes ...". This Central Russian nature with the unhurried flow of rivers, the serene spirit of the fields influenced the gentle character of Ilya. Next we come across a description of the landlord and peasant life. And again here is a kind of idyll: “ Happy people lived, thinking that it should not and cannot be otherwise, confident that all others live in exactly the same way and that it is a sin to live otherwise ... ". Oblomovites are hardworking, religious, superstitious, they like to listen to fairy tales, to solve dreams. Forever remain in the memory of the hero endless winter evenings, nursery tales about a wonderful country where rivers of honey and milk flow, where beauties walk and good fellows. It was here, in Oblomovka, in the distant childhood that the important feature his character - poetic daydreaming. Legends and fairy tales, epics and parables determined his consciousness and attitude to life.

Another defining feature of Oblomov's character is independence from the world of external life, a sense of inner freedom. That is why service is only as a career, secular friends, empty women, unable to give happiness, turn out to be alien to the hero. “They are all dead. Sleeping people, worse than me, these members of the world and society!” - says Oblomov. He is looking for perfection in this world, "the norm, the ideal of life, which nature has indicated as a goal for man." In his actions and thoughts, Ilya Ilyich is noble, his soul is "pure and clear as glass."

However, life in the family estate also shaped the negative aspects of Oblomov's character. So, little Ilyusha grew up active and inquisitive, but his best impulses were thwarted. The constant guardianship of parents and nannies did not allow the child to fully develop. All his attempts to do something on his own were refuted by arguments: “Why? Where? And Vaska, and Vanka, and Zakharka for what? His studies at the Stolz boarding house were intermittent, he became indifferent to the sciences. Gradually, the child developed laziness, inertia, apathy, indifference to life.

Ilya Ilyich dreams of love and family, but he is not allowed to experience the ideal feeling. He breaks up with Olga Ilyinskaya, as she cannot give him true happiness. Agafya Pshenitsyna, with her character, way of life somewhat close to female type that existed in his childhood. And that is why he remains on the Vyborg side, in the house of Agafya Matveevna, she becomes the same Militrisa Kirbityevna, about whom his nanny read to him. So the fairy tale is embodied in the life of Oblomov. Thus, childhood years, according to the writer, completely determine our character and life scenario.

F. Iskander - the book "Reflections of the Writer" (a collection of essays and journalism). The author identifies two types of creativity in Russian literature - "home" and "homelessness". Poets, defenders and organizers of the "home" - Pushkin, Tolstoy, Akhmatova. The authors of "homelessness" are Lermontov, Dostoevsky, Tsvetaeva. So, Lermontov's Pechorin destroys Bela's house, Grushnitsky's house, being homeless, dies in Persia himself. Pushkinsky Eugene in the poem " Bronze Horseman”, on the contrary, defends his right to a house, rebelling against Peter. We find poetry at home in "Eugene Onegin", "The Captain's Daughter".

The writing

based on the story by Boris Petrovich Ekimov "A house for sale"

Loneliness is an emotional state of a person associated with the absence of loved ones or with the fear of losing them.

Ekimov Boris Petrovich, the author of the story "A house for sale", addresses the problem of loneliness. This problem is not new, especially among the elderly. In order to attract the attention of readers to her, Ekimov tells how the main character, Baba Manya, is trying to sell her house, but at the same time stay with him: “I will live quietly, but it seems in front of people.” She suffers from loneliness, she wants to at least talk to someone. “I can’t sit alone in a hut,” she says.

Older people need the participation of loved ones in their lives. Sometimes it is enough to call relatives who will take an interest in well-being and talk about their successes and problems. But in life, everything often happens the way Baba Mani does.

The author of the story takes pity on the old woman. He wants readers to get a feel for the story, as it is fairly typical of our times as well. Many older people face this problem. No one wants to be in a similar situation, because loneliness makes a person unhappy, miserable.

The writer managed to show us how bad Baba Mana is, how much she needs to communicate with her children, but they are not up to her, they have their own problems, worries: “Daughter ... comes once a week. He will fly in, sit down and sing: “Oh, mom, there is no time.” Sometimes the old woman goes to the neighbors just to be with people: “And that’s all. I go to neighbors, if only with people. Telling the story of Baba Mani, the author tries to warn us against such mistakes in relations with elderly parents and even strangers.

I fully share the position of the author. I also feel sorry for Baba Manya. If a person has children, he should not remain lonely, unhappy, forgotten by everyone in his old age. Especially acutely I feel the suffering of this elderly woman, because I experienced firsthand what loneliness is. I am also afraid of him and I know how insulting and painful it is when they forget about you and leave you alone with your problems.

There are many such examples in life and literature. So, in the story of Konstantin Georgievich Paustovsky “Telegram”, the loneliness of an elderly woman Katerina Ivanovna, who was left completely alone after the death of her husband, is shown. And she, like Baba Mani, also has a daughter, Nastya. And Nastya, too, has no time. She regularly sends money to her mother, but Katerina Ivanovna does not need it. She dies without waiting for her daughter. And even strangers bury her. But this is wrong.

We also encounter the problem of human loneliness in A.P. Chekhov's story "Tosca". From the beginning of the story, A.P. Chekhov points to the harmony present in the relationship between the old cabman and his “horse”, which sensitively captures the slightest changes in the state of mind of its owner. The world of people has rejected him, and the old man goes to his horse - a dumb creature - which alone understands him. With warm irony to his hero, to all people lonely in their anguish, vainly looking for a response, salvation in another person, and, perhaps, to himself, A.P. Chekhov ends the story with the following two phrases: “The horse chews, listens and breathes into the hands of her master… Jonah gets carried away and tells her everything…”

The theme of loneliness declared by A.P. Chekhov in the story is developed and comprehended by the writer throughout his subsequent literary activity.

Thus, the problem of loneliness has always been and remains one of the most significant in society. It should be paid attention to.

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The attitude of a person towards parents, indifference towards relatives.
Very often, children forget about their parents, plunging into their worries and affairs. So, for example, in the story of K.G. Paustovsky "" shows the attitude of the daughter to her aged mother. Katerina Petrovna lived alone in the village, while her daughter was busy with her career in Leningrad. The last time Nastya saw her mother was 3 years ago, she rarely wrote letters, she sent her 200 rubles every two or three months. This money was of little concern to Katerina Petrovna, she re-read a few lines that her daughter wrote along with the translation (that there is no time not only to come, but also to write a normal letter). Katerina Petrovna missed her daughter very much, listened to every rustle. When she became very ill, she asked her daughter to come to see her before her death, but Nastya did not have time. There were many cases, she did not take her mother's words seriously. This letter was followed by a telegram stating that her mother was dying. Only then did Nastya realize that "no one loved her as much as this decrepit, abandoned old woman." She realized too late that there had never been anyone dearer than her mother in her life and never would be. Nastya went to the village to see her mother last time in life to ask for forgiveness and say the most important words, but did not have time. Katerina Petrovna is dead. Nastya did not even have time to say goodbye to her and left with the realization of "irreparable guilt and unbearable severity."

The problem of loneliness, indifference towards loved ones.

No person deserves to be alone. Even worse are situations when people become lonely who are not really alone in this world. This happened to the heroine of the story K.G. Paustovsky "" Katerina Petrovna. In her old age, she was left completely alone, although she had a daughter. Loneliness destroyed her every day, the only thing that kept Katerina Petrovna was the expectation of meeting her daughter. She waited three years, but only a couple of days were not enough for her. Very often, indifference towards loved ones kills more than illness. Perhaps if Nastya was more sensitive, then the sick person would not have to die alone.

Guilt.

Guilt is a feeling that everyone knows. Guilt becomes especially terrible in cases where a person does not have the opportunity to correct the situation, as in the story of K.G. Paustovsky "". The main character Nastya showed callousness towards her mother. She did not come to her, because she was busy with her own affairs. She was not with her mother when she was ill. Last letter Nastya did not take seriously from her mother. For this reason, she did not have time to tell her mother that she loves her, she could not ask for forgiveness for not coming. Nastya realized her mistakes too late: Katerina Petrovna died. Therefore, all the words remained unsaid, and a terrible feeling of guilt remained in the soul. There are actions that cannot be corrected and there is guilt that nothing can atone for.

According to Ekimov's text. Autumn in Moscow, and velvet season in Koktebel. Although the times are different, but now it’s good in the Crimea ...

Loneliness. How hard is it to be lonely in old age? How hard is it to live alone? How do you lack not only funds, but also simple spiritual warmth and participation? These and other questions arise in me after reading the text of B.P. Ekimov.

In his text, the author raises the problem of attitudes towards lonely old people. To draw attention to a problem, he uses artistic technique- antithesis. Crimea, the sea, the velvet season and a lonely elderly woman with bouquets of wormwood in a shabby coat, a dark scarf. “She was superfluous at this autumn, but still a celebration of life.” The writer understands that it is not from a good life that a woman with penny bouquets of wormwood is sitting on the embankment. Every evening he meets an old woman. "It was so disturbing to see her loneliness, as if a splinter pierced in the heart." The writer feels sympathy for her, imagining her lonely old age. He was happy for her when the old woman's acquaintances appeared, who sat next to her, talked, warmed her lonely heart for a while. The issue that the author raises made me think deeply about the heavy burden of loneliness in old age.

The position of the author is clear to me: loneliness in old age causes sympathy and pity for everyone. But not many people, busy with their own worries, find the spiritual strength to show sympathy for lonely old people, to provide effective assistance. The author with great pity tells us about a lonely elderly woman and sincerely rejoices when she makes acquaintances.

I fully share the position of the author. Being lonely is always bad, and especially in old age. When you are weak and need help, but there are no people around to help. The sad fate of lonely old people. You need to try to show them sympathy and, if possible, provide all possible assistance. I will try to prove this by referring to fiction.

In K.G. Paustovsky's story "Telegram", an old woman experiences loneliness. For three years her only daughter Nastya has not come to her. Katerina Ivanovna is ill. She needs care and participation loved one. Of course, there were people who look after her, but that's not it. The woman feels abandoned, "alone in the world." It is difficult for us to understand daughter Nastya. Every person gets old. His peace in old age is the concern of children. They must help him. Why did Nastya not fulfill her duty? Not at all clear. It will remain on her conscience.

In the story of A.S. Pushkin " Stationmaster"We also meet a hero who was left alone and was very worried about this. Dunya's daughter, whom he raised, ran away with a nobleman. Samson Vyrin could not survive the betrayal of his daughter, he quickly grew old and died. The daughter, having arranged her fate, did not try to improve relations with her father, she deleted him from her life for whole years. Of course, this is a betrayal. Like Nastya, Dunya will come to her father. But he will find a grave where he will sob inconsolably. But nothing can be changed. Parents must not be forgotten. You can't leave them alone in old age. They didn't deserve it.

Thus, do not pass by lonely old people. Find strength in yourself and give them some of your warmth, take care of them. Each of us can be in their place, and already we will need someone's help. Share your warmth.

The problem of lonely old age. According to Ekimov's text. Autumn in Moscow, and velvet season in Koktebel. Though times are different...

Lonely old age. What could be sadder? What does a lonely old man need? Who can help him? These and other questions arise in me after reading the text of B.P. Ekimov.

The author poses in his text the problem of lonely old age. He talks about an elderly woman who sold bunches of wormwood on the embankment every evening. In an old shabby coat, in a dark scarf. “She was superfluous at this autumn, but still a celebration of life.” The writer understands that the woman is selling penny bouquets because she does not have enough money, and there is no one to help. He sympathizes with the heroine. "It was so disturbing to see her loneliness, as if a splinter pierced in the heart." This old woman reminded the writer of his mother, making him think about the plight of lonely elderly people.

The position of the author is clear to me: lonely old age is a problem of society. Old people should not live out their lives alone, they should not need money. an old man needs care, communication, effective help.

I fully share the position of the author. Spiritual health society is defined by caring for the elderly and children. We, unfortunately, are full of orphans with living parents and old people with living children. Old people are abandoned different reasons. But, no matter how life develops, you can not leave the old people. You have to be involved with them. I will try to prove this by referring to fiction.

In A.P. Chekhov's play " The Cherry Orchard"We meet the old man Firs, who has been serving the Ranevskys for more than half a century, he remembers them as children. When Ranevskaya arrives from abroad, she constantly notices how Firs has aged. But time does not paint anyone, does it? The Cherry Orchard, along with the house, goes to Lopakhin for debts at an auction. Ranevskaya again goes abroad. Everyone leaves the house. And Firs was forgotten. How will the old man live alone? Is it possible to forget the person who faithfully served their family all his life. Being alone in an empty house is the sad fate of many old people. Stay when they especially need warmth and participation.

Thus, there should not be lonely old people. Next to them there should be people who will take care of them, give them their warmth. In old age, a person needs care and sympathy. If for some reason a person is left alone, the state and social services should take care of him. Don't leave your old people. Love them and take care of them.

The problem of poverty. According to Ekimov's text. Autumn in Moscow, and velvet season in Koktebel. Though times are different...

Old age. Autumn of life. Difficult period of life. Not everyone is given to go through it with dignity, in love and prosperity, surrounded by loved ones. In our country, unfortunately, for many, old age is a real test. If you are lonely, if you have a small pension, if your relatives, mired in their problems, have forgotten about you, or it is your own fault that you were left alone ... In general, there are many reasons. How many in our society are bleak old people with dull eyes, the poor and the destitute. Did they dream of such an old age? These and other thoughts arose in me after reading the text of B.P. Ekimov.

In his text, the author touches on the problem of poverty of lonely elderly people. To draw attention to the problem, he talks about a lonely old woman who was selling penny bouquets of wormwood. An old coat, a dark scarf, and even these useless bouquets themselves - everything indicated that a woman needed money. She sold them to tourists in the Crimea, so it seemed even more distinctly "superfluous on this autumn, but still a celebration of life." The writer argues that it would be better if a woman asked for alms - they would give more. "But he doesn't want to ask." Sympathizing with the heroine, he asks the question "How many of them are now with an outstretched hand!". The problem that the author raises made me think deeply about how hard it is to be alone and poor in old age.

I agree with the opinion of the author. In our country, most old people have small pensions, which are hardly enough to live on. A lot of money is spent on medicines, I want to help my children and grandchildren if they are not completely arranged. Therefore, the old people are accustomed to save on everything and deprive themselves. Attitudes towards old age are beginning to change little by little in our country. We see how, for example, in Germany, a retired person lives happily and with dignity, he travels a lot, has the opportunity to do what he likes. He has no problems with funds, because the state has properly taken care of his pension. I hope that someday we will understand this too. There can be no prosperous country with poor old people. They were poor even in the 19th century. I will try to prove this by referring to fiction.

Once I was shocked by the horror of the existence of the hero of the story by A.P. Chekhov "Freeloaders". The seventy-year-old, decrepit, lonely old man Zotov has nothing to eat. A rickety porch, a cold stove, a mangy, half-dead dog, Lyska, and a decrepit horse. The old man himself has nothing to eat, and then the cattle are starving, think about what to feed. He is forced to go to the godfather, the shopkeeper, and beg for an eighth of oats, a pinch of tea. Bad life. Why does the former tradesman live so badly? It turned out that they did not pay pensions to the elderly. The children had to support their parents. What if he was left alone in the whole wide world? Lie down and die.

Thus, not all old people manage to live their lives in abundance. Many have to barely make ends meet. Most often these are lonely old people who are unable to work, and there is no one to help them. The task of society, the state, social services not to leave them alone with their misfortune, but to help. Old people should live with dignity.

It was relevant at all times. It also exists in modern world. Of course, today people use the Internet and various means of communication that allow them to communicate unlimitedly. However, according to psychologists, the one who most often turns to social networks, more than others, feels a sense of loneliness, that is, the absence Sometimes such a person comes up with some life events and history. And this is all in order to attract attention. Often the problem of loneliness arises in those people who do not want to accept the society that surrounds them.

They oppose themselves to others, try in every possible way to protect themselves from the whole world and often go against generally accepted norms and traditions.

Child and loneliness

It is easier to accept the existence of a problem when a person does not have family, friends and loved ones. However, situations are different. Sometimes a feeling of loneliness visits a person who is surrounded by relatives. Unfortunately, such a phenomenon exists, although it seems simply incredible.

So, there is the problem of the loneliness of a child in the world of adults. The arguments given by psychologists testify to the danger of this phenomenon. After all, the fears and emotions experienced in early age, have a strong influence on the formation of personality, and, consequently, on the whole life of a person. That is why adults should pay attention to the problem of their baby.

What are the reasons why a child becomes lonely? The most obvious of them is the lack of attention from people close to him. Often, adults are so absorbed in their worries and problems that they simply do not have enough free time for their child. Think about it, maybe in your family there was such a situation? If yes, then it requires immediate correction. And there is a weighty argument in favor of such a step. The problem of loneliness, according to psychologists, leads to the fact that children become withdrawn, oppressed and alienated. The child, left to himself for a long time, goes into the world of thoughts and fantasies he has created.

The reason for loneliness at an early age may be the wrong approach of parents to education. Some fathers and mothers mistakenly believe that they know better than the child himself what he needs. In this case, the interests of an unformed personality are ignored. Putting that pressure on little man it is forbidden. And on this occasion, psychologists have a weighty argument. The problem of loneliness that arose in the process of such upbringing can alienate the child from his parents, as it will gradually degenerate into misunderstanding.

How to protect a child from loneliness?

The problem that has arisen requires immediate elimination. Of course, the ways to solve it are not easy, but they exist. The constant efforts of people close to him will help drive away the feeling of loneliness from the child. Parental love will serve as the main assistant in this. But it should not be expressed in material wealth, but in sincere sensitivity, care and participation in the life of the baby. You need to constantly be interested in the affairs of your child and not dismiss him when he invites you to play with him.

The problem of child loneliness in literary works

Many writers and publicists raised the topic of lack of attention to the life and interests of a small person. They often discussed how the problem of loneliness arises. Arguments from the literature that can be given on this topic - the story of Pavel Sanaev - "Bury me behind the plinth." The protagonist of the work is the boy Sasha Savelyev. He tells readers about lost dreams and unfulfilled hopes due to the moral indifference of adults. The boy has no toys and no friends. All this is replaced by only a small mouse. When she is gone, Sasha will fully feel the loneliness of a child among adults.

The same feeling seizes the heroine of the story written by Dina Sabitova “Three of your names”. This is a story about terrible fate girl who went through a real hell of a half-starved beggar life first in native family and then in orphanage and adoptive parents.

male loneliness

Often, representatives of the strong half of humanity do not have any attachments and close ties. Some men consider this condition the norm. Is it so? To understand this issue, it is necessary to consider what kind of argument is given by psychologists in opposition to this.

The problem of loneliness, according to experts, may lie in inadequate self-esteem of a man. Such a person simply moves away from relationships with the people around him. He is afraid of criticism of his abilities and talents, which will bring him pain.

The reason for the loneliness of a man may be the lack of communication skills in communicating with others. Often the basis of such immaturity is shyness, which arose due to psychological trauma received in childhood or adolescence.

The cause of male loneliness can be the presence of social phobia. The roots of this phenomenon lie deep and lie in the imposition of an adult opinion on the boy. For example, the beginning of a visit to a kindergarten with a psychological unpreparedness of the baby. This causes fear and leads to a desire to spend time alone, away from other children.

The reason for the isolation of a man can be a psychopathology, expressed in depression, autism, schizophrenia, a tendency to alcoholism. The problem of loneliness also arises in those young guys who have a strong emotional attachment to their mother. However, not only as a result of underdevelopment or a person does not contact with the world around him. As a direct contrast to everything said above, another, fairly weighty argument can be made. The problem of loneliness sometimes becomes an element of spiritual growth. Here we are talking about the pinnacle of human development.

The theme of male loneliness in literary works

The feeling of lack of affection haunts many representatives of the strong half of humanity. Numerous arguments that are directly related to the problem of human loneliness are found in the works of domestic and foreign writers. There are books that are literally permeated with this feeling, and among them are the works of Gabriel Garcia Marquez.

In many works of this author, the problem of loneliness is raised. Arguments from literature written by Marquez - the hero of his novel "The Outsider". In addition, Albert Camus wrote about loneliness, as well as Truman Capote ("Breakfast at Teffany's") and Hermann Hesse ("Demian"). In these works, loneliness is a special life canvas with hopes and torments woven into it, alienation and solitude, internal conflicts and contradiction.

A weighty argument to the problem of the loneliness of a person who has chosen the path of service is L. Tolstoy's novel War and Peace. In this work, we are presented with the image of the great commander Kutuzov. He saves the country and spares the lives of soldiers, giving Moscow without a fight. The main task that the commander-in-chief sets himself is to rid Russia of enemies with minimal losses for his army. However, the authorities have a different opinion. She wants to achieve glory at any cost. As a result, the author raises the problem of the tragic loneliness of a person. The arguments for it are the resignation, and then the untimely death of the great commander. That is the price of the decision.

In many works of Russian writers, the problem of loneliness was raised. Arguments from the literature on this issue - the hero of A. Pushkin, Eugene Onegin. At first glance, he could be attributed to a socially active person. Onegin was gladly received in secular society. Moreover, the hero received real pleasure from leading such an idle life. However, at the end of the novel, Onegin concludes for himself that he has always been "a stranger to everyone ...".

What other works deal with the problem of loneliness? Arguments from the literature can be given as follows:

1. Roman I. S. Turgenev "Fathers and Sons". His main character Bazarov is lonely both in love and in friendship and views.
2. Roman Y. Lermontov "Hero of Our Time". In it, the image of Pechorin is a multifaceted loneliness, both lyrical and civil, as well as universal.
3. Comedy A. S. Griboyedov "Woe from Wit." Her hero, Alexander Chatsky, experiences loneliness, not finding support for his thoughts in society. He perceives his situation as a personal tragedy.

female loneliness

Complaints about this condition can often be heard from the fairer sex. Moreover, the topic of such loneliness excites, as a rule, women themselves. Unfortunately, even married ladies or those who have a love relationship can experience such a feeling.

What is the origin of this problem? Psychologists explain its presence:

Complexes and insecurity, when women compare themselves with beauties from the covers of glossy magazines -

Stereotypes, when ladies believe that men only love blondes, marry bitches, etc. -

Lack of meaningfulness in the search for a partner.

But be that as it may, the psychology of female loneliness, as a rule, concerns the absence of a beloved man nearby. Even those divorced girls who have children speak of the emergence of this feeling. They project their condition onto the baby, saying: "No one needs us." The desire of a woman to have a family is inherent in nature itself. The little girls are already in kindergarten they begin to play mother-daughter, cook soup in a plastic saucepan and swaddle dolls. At the same time, they dream of a handsome husband and a luxurious white veil.

However, it is such that even wearing a wedding ring on her hand, a representative of the weaker sex may feel lonely. Often this is explained by the fact that many families live as if by inertia, and the spouses are not interested in each other's moods and thoughts. It often happens that a woman lovingly prepares dinner for her husband, receiving a “thank you” on duty in response.

Sometimes ladies doom themselves to loneliness after an unsuccessful romance. They are painfully experiencing the situation, experiencing humiliation. And here comes the problem of overcoming loneliness. The arguments given by psychologists indicate that it needs to be addressed. Otherwise, the woman will become even more unhappy than she was before. She will be prevented from creating new relationships by the fear of her prejudice that all men are evil.

The theme of woman's loneliness in literary works

She tells about the life of a simple Russian collective farmer in her story “ Matrenin yard» A. I. Solzhenitsyn. This is a lonely woman who lost her husband at the front and buried six children. Matrena Vasilievna, that is the name of the main character of the story, struggles alone with the hardships of life. She, who has seniority at the state farm, is not paid a pension. She was also unable to obtain payments for the loss of a breadwinner. However, Matryona did not lose her human feelings. She readily responds to someone else's misfortune and continues to bear the cross of the keeper of the hearth.

very bright female loneliness shown in L. Tolstoy's novel Anna Karenina. This is a work about breaking the relationship of the main character with all spheres of life. Here the author also highlights the problem of the influence of loneliness on a person. The arguments in favor of the fact that the love of Vronsky and Anna is doomed to failure are obvious. Alienation of society and its rejection of the feelings that have arisen, contrary to the morality of secular circles. A young and cheerful woman at the beginning of the novel is eventually driven to complete despair and dies under the wheels of a train.

Loneliness of the elderly

The problem of lack of demand, the appearance of a feeling of abandonment and misunderstanding on the part of young people often accompanies the elderly. This is exacerbated by the fact that they also experience a lack of support and care from the state. But often this is a problem of loneliness of a person who has devoted himself to others. Arguments in favor of the need to solve it - social aspects question.

What are the causes of loneliness in old age? This is the absence of relatives and children or separate living from them. It is not easy for old people to endure the death of a spouse. For Russian state Another problem is the loneliness of older people. The arguments for the seclusion of the elderly are financial helplessness and the inability to cope with domestic and hygienic issues.

The theme of loneliness of the elderly in literary works

The story of K. G. Paustovsky "Telegram" tells about the life of an old village woman. His main character, Ekaterina Ivanovna, had to experience loneliness, despite the fact that she has a daughter, Nastya. The author raises the problem of loneliness of old people. Arguments confirming its existence are awareness main character her uselessness, because her daughter has not visited her for four years. This leads to the fact that the old woman lives out her days all alone.

The same problem was also raised by A. S. Pushkin. In his story "The Stationmaster" he showed how terrible the picture of the loneliness of an old man is. The hero of history, Samson Vyrin, was left by his daughter, who went after her beloved.

How loneliness changes a person was convincingly shown to us by N.V. Gogol. The hero of his novel Dead Souls» Plyushkin himself removed his children from himself. He was afraid that they would ruin him. The result of Plyushkin's loneliness was the degradation of personality.

One of the problems of residents of large cities

The huge congestion of people in megacities does not allow people to meet often and does not encourage close spiritual communication. Everyone is in a hurry and running about their business, often not paying attention to who is nearby. Women and men live as if by inertia. However, a certain moment comes, and each of them understands that loneliness has come, because there is no one around. You can find a description of such a state in many literary works. There is it in the novel by F. M. Dostoevsky "White Nights". In it, the author raises the problem of loneliness of people in big cities. The arguments confirming the existence of such a situation are the divergence of interests and the total separation of people. In the center of the story of F. M. Dostoevsky is the story of a lonely Dreamer. On his life path I met a girl Nastenka. The dreamer falls in love with her and with her help tries to get out of the "dungeon" of loneliness.

However, Nastenka loves another and remains true to her feelings. She apologizes for her betrayal in a letter written to the Dreamer. He forgives the girl, but, continuing to love her, remains alone in a cold city that does not understand him.

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