Take rubbish out of the hut. Three Reasons Why You Shouldn't Wash Rubbish in Public

PHOTO-1L Is there any statistics that would determine how many families broke up due to the evil language of the wife, gossip and scandals that were put on public display, made public and forever crossed out not only sincerity in the relationship of spouses, but also the possibility of correcting something after a public lynching of the opposite side. I think the numbers would be depressing.
The most interesting thing is that a simple negative discussion of a husband in a conversation with a girlfriend, as a disclosure of the secret, is also equated with a scandal.
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HORRORS OF OUR TOWN: I'm going to work in public transport and I listen to a strange conversation, which seems to consist only of short remarks, but involves in complicity and involuntary empathy of all the passengers of the minibus stuck in a toffee. Despite the fact that the woman sitting in the front seat says almost nothing, the picture of the conversation emerges as offensively obvious and recognizable. As always!
- Galya, hello, how are you?
- …..
- Yes you that?!
-….
- What is he?
-…
- And you?
-…
- And what did he say?
-…
- No, well, you imagine! Here, freak! And what did you say?
-…
- You're a fool! Three times stupid!
-….
- I can not talk. It got on my nerves so much. And now what?
-…
- That's a bastard!
-…
- I have a nervous breakdown. I can't talk, I'm on the bus....

For an hour, while we were stuck in a traffic jam, a meaningful telephone conversation between two bosom friends continued in the same vein. What were they talking about? Not hard to guess. All about the same. About his own, about women's ...

Take rubbish out of the hut- disclose troubles, quarrels concerning only a narrow circle of people. The expression is usually used with negation as a call not to disclose the details of such quarrels (no need to take dirty linen out of the hut). (Handbook of Phraseological Units)

Bringing dirty linen out of the hut is, of course, a tempting occupation. Why? Yes, because at this moment you are not alone and have the right to count on sympathy, empathy, fleeting love, which you, apparently, lack in the family. Otherwise, why would it be necessary to resort to the help of the audience?
But there is at least

THREE REASONS, according to which it is categorically not recommended to "clean up dirty linen in public".
First, it's dangerous
Folk expressions carry a huge charge of the traditional ideas of our ancestors about good and evil and the moral grain of humanity and common sense. In mystical terms, this was expressed in their belief that an evil person could allegedly send trouble to the owner of the house by uttering special magic words over the garbage from his dwelling. According to an old superstition, damage to a person can be caused by trimming nails, combed hair, any garbage from his house, so rubbish was usually swept under the threshold, and then burned in the oven. To take dirty linen out of the hut meant to bring trouble to your house.
This is how our ancestors motivated the need to hide from those around them the intimate side of their lives, that which touched very closely the person himself, in order to exclude the intrusion into his world, bringing pain, suffering and sadness into it.
Naive pagan protection from the evil eye, corruption and slander can be explained by simple psychological motivations.
THE HORRORS OF OUR TOWN: “One friend met a wonderful man, they got married and lived in perfect harmony, but he was a Jew. And another friend at the meeting says: I've heard that Jews sometimes have a smell, tell me is it true? The girlfriend answered that no, she never noticed anything ... The second one again persistently began to ask "say, well, at least a little bit they are different and the skin smells different" and the first girlfriend just to get rid of said "maybe a little bit." the second friend gave it to her husband and he chopped all the furniture in the apartment leaving a note "So that you don't smell of anything Jewish." The family broke up."
To take dirty linen out of the hut means to feel like a victim, the sad image of which requires worship and reverence. BUT there is a huge share of risk, this victim in the end to become. Invite trouble on yourself in full. Only by the efforts of their own language. Since the thought is material, but the word uttered after the thought is doubly material.
The image of the victim is sometimes so attractive that a woman dresses herself up with pleasure and tells everyone right and left about how unlucky she was with her husband, how bad he is, and how she gets a daily nervous breakdown from this. Can you imagine? And you? And he? Here, bastard!
“Call a person a piglet, and he will grunt” - it turns out the most real programming for negativity.
By doing this, in principle, she does not even suspect that she is completely cutting off her path to happiness, not being able to appreciate what she has.
“What we have, we don’t store, if we lose, we cry,” is a well-known proverb here. After all, by discussing our loser with others, we reinforce the negative, encode it for repeated failure, stick a label to it. Yes, and to his family life, too. Because how can she be happy in principle with such a scumbag.
ADVICE: If you already dreamed of a prince, but somehow it didn’t work out, and fantasies dry up in the bud. I suggest not to translate good. And direct them in a creative direction. Come up with a new image for your unlucky husband. And suddenly he "grunts" the way you would like. By your, by the way, efforts and prayers, he can generally successfully move from complete losers to geniuses. There would be a desire. And love, of course. Because without love, all this will be just a bitter pill from complete disappointment in life.
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My old friend, with whom I often discussed my family affairs, once very wisely and firmly set my brains in one single phrase. When I tried to complain about my own and was about to put on the usual hackneyed record of revealing monologue, she said:
- If he is so bad, why are you living with him?
- Why should I leave him because of the scattered socks or what? I was surprised.
- And if you don’t want to quit, you sleep with him, you spend his money, you turn your cheek for a kiss, then why are you shameful in front of people. As you see it, so it will be!
At that time I even, I remember, was offended at her for her harshness.
By the way, she never said a single bad word about her husband. Although he did not work for a long time and seemed strange to me. "Do not take dirty linen out of the hut!" - a useful and for some reason forgotten by many people's anti-crisis method of dealing with garbage in family life was the motto of her life. What was behind the door of their house, what they talked about, how they coped with difficulties, what they promised each other, who took out the trash can and washed their socks - this remained a mystery with seven seals. But when a friend fell seriously ill and spent three months in the hospital, her house did not collapse, the children did not starve, she was not even fired from her job, because he took her transfers home and carefully visited the hospital. Twice every day, morning and evening.

And then I envied her kindly and realized what her secret was. The secret of family happiness is in accepting your life option with love and gratitude, regardless of what friends and acquaintances may say about it. What difference does it make to you, in essence, what they think about you, how they react to the ups and downs of your family history, if you live the main moments of your life not with them, but with HIM. The person closest to you. Be good to him, love him, cherish him and meditate so that your bright dreams of his genius will someday come true. And who knows, what if… they will someday come true.

Secondly, litter is an indicator of your defeat
Someone from the wise said that every woman deserves the man who is next to her.
It is she who allows him to be a parasite, a rude, an alcoholic, a loser or a hero, a researcher, a breadwinner, a support.
She, like a tuning fork, tunes the family flute and sets the weather in the house.
Why is it considered good form for some women to discuss the closest person with their friends? Why do they often say not the most pleasant things about him? Looking for excuses? Want to look taller?
It probably makes them seem better than him.
But, by and large, only confirms their own unsuccessful choice. Or the inability to build relationships.
"Oh, leave it! Tired! - the reader will say, who is already under the eyeballs got the responsibility for everyone and everything. Again, it's the woman's fault. He is a lazy person - she did not drive him off the couch. He likes to drink - she brought it! He walks - his wife could not satisfy. How many dogs can be hanged on it!
And our reader will begin to dream of a fabulous man who knows how to make decisions and be responsible for his actions, a breadwinner and a protector, a calm and balanced embodiment of her best hopes, “so that she doesn’t drink, doesn’t smoke, and always gives flowers ...” and further along the text of the famous song . Fill your head to the top with these fantastic dreams and wait for a miracle. In parallel, discussing and condemning the surrounding men for their laziness, rudeness, stupidity, stinginess and other shortcomings. Everyone discusses: neighbors, acquaintances, girlfriends. Why is she worse? Strangers why not discuss! But she will never have such a thing and cannot be, because she is waiting for the real thing. And dreams to the fullest!
Dreaming, dreaming, but in the end he gets the wrong thing. And so, a mediocre one, who, by the way, has the same vices that it was so pleasant to discuss with others.

Thirdly, making dirty linen is not a panacea
Well, you scratched your tongues, took your soul away, received a wagon of sympathy and a tank of solidarity tears. They fixed in their brain the image of a scoundrel who is no match for you, splashed out ... And then they came home, and there he sits!
Sitting cute on the porch
With a facial expression
Expresses that face -
Than sit on the porch
Chastushki
What will you do? After all, you need to continue to live with him ... But is it necessary?
Some are quick to dot the i's and cut the Gordian knot in the standard trivial way. "Out of sight, out of mind". Divorce seems to be a panacea, a way out, the only way to rectify the situation. The “new” contender for the hand and heart is seen almost as an icon that you can pray for. But in close contact with living together with him, it may turn out that he, in fact, is not particularly different from the old one. And something even worse.
“I changed the awl for soap,” the woman thinks and falls into another depression. He puts on himself a cross and a black stigma on the whole male gender. Now you can grind your tongue without getting tired. And not only with friends to discuss them all.
What's the point? Is it long enough?
Anyway, one day you want something normal, humane, humane. Love, after all. And the woman will again tune in to a miracle and begin to wait.
But you can wait a long time, and a very long time, so that life will pass. When the clock persistently chimes about the need to solve the problem, when it is already over 30, 40, 50 ..., then another organ in the brain turns on, and the bar decreases. And the dreamer thinks in a more real way about the most elementary marriage to the most ordinary neighbor boy, with whom she once sat at the same desk or studied at the same institute. And he turns out to be completely without foreign gloss, wealth and other coveted male virtues. Ordinary. As everybody.
At first, she will diligently attribute non-existent virtues to him. Composing epithets for your unearthly love and presenting your meeting with him as a completely extraordinary situation, looking like a scene from a love story. He will finish the details, shade inconsistencies, close his eyes to obvious flaws. And then calm down. Well, at least there is one!
Unlucky, but your own!
Well, it’s not a sin to discuss the unlucky one with your friends. Like just now. Bitter, but like everyone else.
And the usual cart will roll along the putrid swamps of the old blah blah blah. Round. And so all my life ... Do you like this prospect?
I do not like!? That's what I don't like!
So whenever I want to tell someone that my husband is completely incapable of putting his damned socks back in place, I put a big barn lock on my mouth.
And imagine! He finally learned how to throw them into the laundry basket. Blimey! It hasn't even been twenty years...

Who

Disclose information about any troubles concerning a narrow circle of "their" persons and therefore hidden from strangers.

implied family quarrels, squabbles, troubles etc., as well as conflicts in a group of persons united by some kind of their common interests. It means that face ( X), which discloses information, belongs to this group or is a member of it on the rights of "one's own". Spoken with disapproval or condemnation. informal ✦ X [not] takes the rubbish out of the hut . Nominal part unchanged, Besides negative feature: don't make a mess less often - rubbish. Often used in inf. structures with words not worth it why etc. Usually with negative: don't make a mess less often - rubbish> from the hut. Usually a verb nesov. in. Usually in the role skaz. Component word order unfixed

⊙ Everyone asked this question. But Fyodor could not and did not want to answer him. I would have to answer why I left my wife, I would have to take the rubbish out of the house. V. Tendryakov, Out of court. I just don't understand why she take out the rubbish from the hut. But after all, a good owner does just that: he takes out dirty linen from the hut, and does not hide it in a corner, otherwise there will be no order. True, 1978.

A neighbor entered the room ... Everything took on a peaceful look: there was an unwritten and indestructible law in the family - rubbish from the hut not endure. G. Nikolaev, Harvest.

Of course, Palkin should be punished, but not take the rubbish out of the hut. After all, what is lost can't be returned anyway. Y. German, My dear man.

She [Catherine] acquainted Potemkin with the unwritten law of the Hermitage: rubbish from our huts not endure. V. Pikul, Favorite.

⊛ I just don’t understand why she had to take dirty linen out of the hut. But a good host does just that: takes out rubbish from the hut, and does not hide it in a corner, otherwise there will be no order. True, 1978.

There are people who probably will not like that two scientists, instead of uniting for a common cause, breed squabbles and take the rubbish out of the hut. A. Kron, Insomnia.

But there are normal families! - Yes where? They pretend. Litter from the hut not endure. And they themselves are quietly ... raging. V. Shukshin, The suffering of young Vaganov.

⊜ - In vain you tell everyone that we often quarrel - to gossip to others you take out the rubbish from the hut. (Rech.)

I will tell you everything about the affairs of the firm, because you are a reliable person, you know how to keep your mouth shut and rubbish from the hut never endured. (Rech.)

⊝ Parents often quarreled over money, reproached me with a piece of bread, but I do not like neighborly gossip, gossip and rubbish from the hut not endured. (Rech.)

With me, they try not to talk about their affairs. Apparently they are afraid I'll take the rubbish out of the hut. (Rech.)

cultural commentary: phraseol. goes back to the belief that the rubbish taken out can cause damage to the owner of the house or members of his family, relatives. To avoid this, a ritual amulet has developed - not take the rubbish out of the house and burn it in a furnace. cm also the fixation of this amulet in the proverb Do not take out the rubbish from the hut, but in the furnace swamp. In the image phraseol. a ritual prohibition-amulet is reflected, dating back to the ancient animistic, i.e. spiritualizing the world, a form of understanding the world, according to which, according to the "real" traces of human activity, damage can be put on him; word rubbish is perceived in modern consciousness as a symbol of what can be discredited [cf. also throw mud at (slop)]. This animistic form of comprehension of the world fits into the broader archetypal opposition "one's own - someone else's"; here "one's own" - belonging to a narrow circle of relatives, friends or confidants, "stranger" - one who may turn out to be hostile and cause damage, moral or material; word hut (cf. also house) symbolizes "one's" personal space.

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• - to take out / take out dirty linen from the hut Razg. Usually negative. Talk about quarrels, troubles that occur between loved ones ...

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• Explanatory dictionary of Ozhegov

• - TOUCH OUT, - oshu, - oshu; - awed; sovereign 1. whom. About the mother, the female: to carry in yourself until the term of childbirth. B. baby. 2. trans., what. Think about, come to something. after reflection. B. new idea, plan, idea. 3. whom...

  Explanatory dictionary of Ozhegov

• - TOUCH OUT, - oshu, - oshu; - awed; sovereign 1. whom. About the mother, the female: to carry in yourself until the term of childbirth. B. baby. 2. trans., what. Think about, come to something. after reflection. B. new idea, plan, idea. 3. whom...

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• - SOR, -a, m. Small dry waste, small garbage ...

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• Explanatory Dictionary of Ushakov

• - 1. TO END, I endure, I endure, my brother. . 1. someone. Give birth, carrying a normal period. Carried out five kids. 2. trans., what. Think it through to full clarity, maturity. Bring out the idea. 2...

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• Explanatory Dictionary of Efremova

• - take out I in`to take out owls. transition see bear I II in`to bear owls. transition see bear II III in`to bear owls. transition see bear III IV in`to bear owls. transition see bear IV V transition one...

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• - endure verb, nsv., use ...

  Dictionary of Dmitriev

• - 1) take out - I wear, - you wear; incl. suffering past well-worn, -shen, -a, -o; owl., transl. . 1. To carry a child in you until delivery ...

  Small Academic Dictionary

• - TO TAKE LADY FROM THE HUNT. TAKE LADY FROM THE HUNT. Razg. 1. Disclose quarrels, squabbles, squabbles that have occurred in the family or between close people ...

  Phraseological dictionary of the Russian literary language

• - Razg. Disclose any. secrets, talk about quarrels, troubles that occur between close people, relatives. FSRYA, 446; BMS 1998, 543; BTS, 176; FM 2002, 402; Yanin 2003, 78; Mokienko 1990, 95; SHZF 2001, 51; ZS 1996, 67...
• - Psk. Unapproved Disclose information relating to internal strife, quarrels, troubles. /i> Noise - rubbish, rubbish...

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Is it worth taking dirty linen out of the hut?

Our ancestors said: "Do not wash dirty linen in public when the sun has set." Here lies such a meaning - all things must be done during the day, and at night only bad deeds are done. The Slavs believed that during the day, while the sun is shining, the gods see, but at night in our world they are not manifested and do not see. So you don't have to do anything at night. That's why thieves go at night. But, the idea is immediately given that the Slavs considered litter to be something like a Navi creature and therefore threw it far from home without looking and you can’t even look at the east and the sun during such a thing.
Sor was used by witches for sabotage:

In the spring, during cleaning, you need to throw rubbish collected from the house at the boundary of the one you want to harm and say: “All the bugs, but the fleas to you!” and run from this place without looking back.

It is impossible to burn rubbish from the house - the dark ones will spoil the fire. So there is a belief in the village of Polissya: “to throw rubbish into the fire to go blind by spring” or else “to throw rubbish into the fire, the sheep will be covered with scabs” ...
If a girl sweeps the floor poorly, the groom will be crooked ”(broken, ugly). If they wanted to fence themselves off from a bad person, then they threw coal from the oven or household rubbish after him. If the family moved to a new place, they swept everything out of the house and took a handful of garbage with them. It was believed that litter connects our world with the world of our ancestors, and so the connection with them will not be interrupted. Garbage in the new house was thrown into a corner, which was visible as you enter the door. If household members, relatives or dear guests have gone on a long journey, then you can’t get out for three days - they may not come back. The same thing happens when a man goes to the army or to the war.

It is impossible to take revenge on the trail of a person who left the house, and even sweep rubbish into the street. And of course, you can’t clean up the house when the patient is lying: “don’t sweep when the sick person is lying, otherwise you can sweep it out with garbage.”
From the point of view of maintaining a single space at home and its security in interaction with the outside world, rubbish cannot be swept out, this breaks the protective barrier, the same applies to talking about home and home. The true deep meaning of the saying: “do not wash dirty linen in public” means: keep domestic relationships a secret, otherwise you will break the protective barrier of the house and cause trouble! In this case, the word litter is used in the meaning of squabbles, swearing, quarrel, that is, everything is junk, do not put gossip on display. In fact, swearing in the house gives rise to waste energy, and apart from how rubbish you can not call it.

Considering that the Russian language is the language of images and reflects the true content of things, their role, one can understand the true meaning of the saying. Therefore, you should not tell outsiders about your quarrels, you will cause laughter and attract someone else's energy to the house, which can lead to illness and failure.

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Our ancestors said: "Do not wash dirty linen in public when the sun has set." Here lies such a meaning - all things must be done during the day, and at night only bad deeds are done. The Slavs believed that during the day, while the sun is shining, the gods see, but at night in our world they are not manifested and do not see. So you don't have to do anything at night. That's why thieves go at night. But, the idea is immediately given that the Slavs considered litter to be something like a Navi creature and therefore threw it far from home without looking and you can’t even look at the east and the sun during such a thing.

Sor was used by witches for sabotage:
In the spring, during cleaning, you need to throw rubbish collected from the house at the boundary of the one you want to harm and say: “All the bugs, but the fleas to you!” and run from this place without looking back.

It is impossible to burn rubbish from the house - the dark ones will spoil the fire. That's it
If a girl sweeps the floor poorly, the groom will be crooked ”(beaten, ugly). If they wanted to fence themselves off from a bad person, then they threw coal from the oven or household rubbish after him. If the family moved to a new place, they swept everything out of the house and took a handful of garbage with them. It was believed that litter connects our world with the world of our ancestors, and so the connection with them will not be interrupted. Garbage in the new house was thrown into a corner, which was visible as you enter the door. If household members, relatives or dear guests have gone on a long journey, then you can’t get out for three days - they may not come back. The same thing happens when a man goes to the army or to the war.

It is impossible to take revenge on the trail of a person who left the house, and even sweep rubbish into the street. And of course, you can’t clean up the house when the patient is lying: “don’t sweep when the sick person is lying, otherwise you can sweep it out with garbage.”

“Do not take dirty linen out of the hut when the sun has set”From the point of view of maintaining a single space at home and its security in interaction with the outside world, linen cannot be swept out, this breaks the protective barrier, the same applies to talking about home and home.

The true deep meaning of the saying: “do not wash dirty linen in public” means: keep domestic relationships a secret, otherwise you will break the protective barrier of the house and cause trouble!

In this case, the word litter is used in the meaning of squabbles, swearing, quarrel, that is, everything is junk, do not put gossip on display. In fact, swearing in the house gives rise to waste energy, and apart from how rubbish you can not call it.
Considering that the Russian language is the language of images and reflects the true content of things, their role, one can understand the true meaning of the saying.

Therefore, you should not tell outsiders about your quarrels, you will cause laughter and attract someone else's energy to the house, which can lead to illness and failure.